This is the Eros vs Thanatos debacle. Those who are driven by Eros want to enjoy the duration of a process: to have a delicious meal, make love, plant and care

This is the Eros vs Thanatos debacle. Those who are driven by Eros want to enjoy the duration of a process: to have a delicious meal, make love, plant and care for that tree, build that house, and live. The adepts of Thanatos want things done right now: to get satiated, have an orgasm, shade away that damn Sun, cover their sorry asses from elements, and die.