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Ask HN: How should I spend a year?
I attended a prestigious public university for a year, and dropped out due to financial and family issues. After that, I was the youngest person at a Fortune 50 company, and did Linux administration for them. I hated the bureaucratic corporate environment and became interested in startups and running my own business. I immaturely left my very good job without truly thinking things through to start providing web services to local businesses. It hasn't panned out as well as I would like. After lots of meditation and reflection, I have self-actualized my number one issue, and that is discipline. In order to gain the discipline I need to reach my full potential, I want to engage in an institution(s) that will help me instill the discipline I need to succeed, ideally for a year, although I am definitely open to shorter/longer options. I have read a bit about Hacker School and feel like it is a great fit for me, so I plan to apply for it, but I am in dire need of suggestions (other than finish college. not my cup of tea.) I'm open to anything, job, internship, program, camp, etc. Thank you for taking the time to consider this, I really appreciate it.
- tremblanc 14y agoWould you consider working in a country that is not yours and preferably where you do not speak the language? It keeps all your senses sharp and in a twisted way, your work is the only one that will be familiar to you, and hence you will dabble in it more. Just a thought.
- mion 14y agoAre you sure your number one issue is discipline? I'm in a similar position to you and I had also realized that I lacked discipline, but nowadays I think it's actually a matter of doing what you're into. And recently I came across one of Paul Graham's essays that resonates with my thinking. Quoting pg (http://paulgraham.com/hs.html http://paulgraham.com/hs.html): "Now I know a number of people who do great work, and it's the same with all of them. They have little discipline. They're all terrible procrastinators and find it almost impossible to make themselves do anything they're not interested in. One still hasn't sent out his half of the thank-you notes from his wedding, four years ago. Another has 26,000 emails in her inbox. I'm not saying you can get away with zero self-discipline. You probably need about the amount you need to go running. I'm often reluctant to go running, but once I do, I enjoy it. And if I don't run for several days, I feel ill. It's the same with people who do great things. They know they'll feel bad if they don't work, and they have enough discipline to get themselves to their desks to start working. But once they get started, interest takes over, and discipline is no longer necessary. Do you think Shakespeare was gritting his teeth and diligently trying to write Great Literature? Of course not. He was having fun. That's why he's so good."
- iamathrowaway 14y agoI definitely agree, but I have a lot of trouble staying disciplined and focused on one thing. I get distracted and chase the next great idea I have rather than sticking with something and running with it. Thanks for your input.
- mion 14y agoI was (am) having the same problem, so recently I've decided to join other people to see if that helps me commit to an idea (wasn't even my own). And it does! IMHO I think you should struggle some more with your discipline problem, and then join an institution such as a start-up, HackerSchool, etc. Internships and programs are great because of the experience you'll get, knowledge and so on, but your lack of discipline when nobody's watching you will still probably be there afterwards. But that's just my opinion!
- iamathrowaway 14y agoWill definitely consider, thanks!
- JoelMarsh 14y agoHumbly, I would like to offer a suggestion that is more about the way you're doing this, rather than what you're doing. You sound like you're thinking only short term, and only in terms of keeping yourself busy. That's not how motivation works, unfortunately. With that kind of approach you never see how your tasks fit into the bigger picture, so everything that comes along is more attractive because it's new. Discipline demands a plan. Choose a goal that will take you 5 years to complete. Something concrete. Something like "build my own app" or "be an early employee at a hot start-up" or something else that takes multiple steps, and something you feel extremely excited about achieving. Then outline those steps and get into the first one now. Then when a new opportunity comes along you can evaluate it by saying "is that a better 5 year goal?" If it isn't, "does that get me closer to my 5 year goal?" If not, ignore it and keep on keepin' on. Voila: discipline through motivated planning.
- iamathrowaway 14y agoI really appreciate this advice, this is a great framework by which to judge my goals and keep me focused on relevant tasks. Do you recommend any books or articles I should read that expound on this mindset?
- adamzerner 14y agoI have a hypothesis that a lack of discipline is really just a lack of understanding. Think about it. When someone doesn't have the discipline to do something, they think they should probably do it, but don't fully understand what they'd gain by doing it, and what they'd sacrifice by not doing it. At the very least, understanding why you should do something will provide you with more motivation to do it. I just feel like (in general, not you specifically) if you truly understand why you should do something, it isn't hard to motivate yourself to do it. So, I think you should sit down and think about what you want to do with your life. Consider all the options, narrow them down, educate yourself on things you're interested in but aren't familiar with, try things out. Once you understand why you don't want to do the things you don't want to do, and you understand why you do want to do the things you do want to do, I think you'll find the motivation to do them.