You've listed off a bunch of examples of why it would work, but none of them do what you've suggested or anything like it. None of them try to force a date to h

You've listed off a bunch of examples of why it would work, but none of them do what you've suggested or anything like it. None of them try to force a date to happen on penalty of a large fine for not showing up. None try to get a woman to meet a stranger without her making the decision to meet them based on her own assessment of the person and pay $50 for the privilege. I'm not saying online dating can't work, and I've said nothing about whether data about people makes matches better. I am saying you have presented an absolutely batshit crazy and dangerous idea of how it ought to work. Edit: It sounds like you've designed a dating app optimized for angry men who feel shorted by women on dating apps. But, there's never been too few men interacting on dating apps. If you're optimizing for men's comfort on a dating site, you have failed to learn the lesson of "ladies night" at bars. If your site is full of single women, men will show up. The opposite is not true, if it feels punitive and risky to women.