I’m disputing that it’s anyone’s responsibility except their own to find a solution to it. Work harder, earn more, or make do with less - they chose to take on

I’m disputing that it’s anyone’s responsibility except their own to find a solution to it. Work harder, earn more, or make do with less - they chose to take on two 18 year financial commitments and now are complaining that despite the bevy of financial benefits society already gives them compared to individuals without children, it’s not enough.