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I learned I was part of a community of people like myself, and that the only thing that matters here is what you can create and how dedicated you are to doing i

• unalone 18y ago
  I learned that everybody's different, that there's no magic solution for doing any one thing. I learned that most stories and opinions have more than one side to them, and that there isn't necessarily always a right side. I learned that it's important to learn how to speak civilly and clearly - even if you're like me and enjoy being mad at people, there's a time and place for it, and it's rarely when you're talking to people online. I learned that the absolutely most thrilling feeling in the world is making stuff, and that the second-most is talking to somebody that has. I remember, early on, saying something dismissive about Delicious and having one of the programmers respond directly to me. I love meeting the people behind things. I still get a thrill when I get into a conversation with somebody who's built a web site or runs a blog. I think that's also what I learned, which goes with what you said: I learned that the thing I value most in others is what they build and how passionate they are about building it. That's a really useful thing to learn about yourself, and to some degree about others.
• rs 18y ago
  You have basically summarised what I've learnt from HN - I learnt that I am not alone, and there are all of these other enthusiastic, energetic people out there who have the entrepreneurial drive to make a change. "You are not alone" - thanks HN!