At the risk of sounding rude, ignorant, and insensitive... did you all get married young? That all sounds a bit narcissistic. Life is too short to be miserable

At the risk of sounding rude, ignorant, and insensitive... did you all get married young? That all sounds a bit narcissistic. Life is too short to be miserable, and we don't celebrate divorce enough. I'm happy for you both, and hope you are too. It's just as much of a milestone as any other big life event. I've never been married, but I have noticed some couples get sort of locked into the level of emotional maturity they were at when they got married. I've always assumed it was a lack of new experiences stunting personal growth. Obviously, similar could be said about me since I've never been married. That too is a lack of experience. Though it is worth pointing out that it's stories like this and my own past relationships that have scared me away. Being emotionally stable and reasonably humble is underrated.