I think it’s important to understand that your job need not be your identity, while acknowledging that for many of us particularly early in our careers the job

I think it’s important to understand that your job need not be your identity, while acknowledging that for many of us particularly early in our careers the job is very important. Maybe focus on a hobby, a partner, something that gives you another sense of identity or worth, which reduces the pressure of the job to fulfill that role. I think we all need meaning in our lives so the strict advice to “care less” is tough to implement. But hopefully the strategies above will help. Build up a multi-faceted identity. You are not worth less bc your company takes months to ship GET endpoints.