I, somewhat ashamedly, will confess: I was actually irritated by the overlay. I've shared in the grieving...that had to happen sooner than now for me. I have

I, somewhat ashamedly, will confess: I was actually irritated by the overlay. I've shared in the grieving...that had to happen sooner than now for me. I have a young child in elementary school, so this has been a big part of my life recently. But I want to do it on my terms. I don't want some asshole telling me I must pray, or support and argue about gun control, or 'Like' a picture of an out-of-work marine who is hanging out in the school parking lot today. I can appreciate the gestures, I just don't like the coercion.