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Everyone is bashing OP and adding salt to his (mental) injury, blaming him for not finding a good job, and then proceeding with “self improvement”, “false posit
by tamimio 1mo ago
Everyone is bashing OP and adding salt to his (mental) injury, blaming him for not finding a good job, and then proceeding with “self improvement”, “false positivity” etc etc, as if it’s the person fault to be in this position, instead of trying to look at the bigger picture on how to regulate the market, look into why the economy is being this bad, and other factors, instead, they go after the victim (the candidate) instead, because it’s always easier to go after the low hanging fruit. Since Jan/2025, 90% of jobs went to healthcare and social assistance while the rest are shrinking, as a result, 90% of all job growth went to women! (1 2), It’s why you never see a blog like that written by a woman don’t you? Do you personally know a jobless woman? Meanwhile, how many jobless man you personally know? I think this is a sign of an economy collapse, when the economy turns to nurturing and taking care of older people rather than the need of young men who can build new projects, you know it’s aging, and OP is the victim of such results. Lastly, the people who are going after his resume, regardless whatever your opinion is, we are not supposed to be ALL 10x engineer, you are not supposed to be a superstar with gazillion repos maintained and contributed to (which is easy to scam and game btw), some people just want a normal job with normal day, being productive but not innovative, it’s a job, not your life, I don’t see the same is being demanded from a nurse, or an office clerk, or an hr meme job, it’s a fucking job!
To OP, cheer up, there are 100 of thousands of people like you, you are not less nor full of “red flags”, you are who you are, my advice: look for something within tech but not software engineering, or something entirely different but still bringing peace to you, if you like driving get your truck license and go for it, if you like building and being handy look up carpentry or similar, you are most likely to make better money than most software engineering jobs right now.
1 https://nitter.kareem.one/JustinWolfers/status/2062886676116934899 https://nitter.kareem.one/JustinWolfers/status/2062886676116...
2 https://nitter.kareem.one/JustinWolfers/status/2072666868297380097 https://nitter.kareem.one/JustinWolfers/status/2072666868297...