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If you don't feel lust, why did you have a girlfriend?
by inigyou 2mo ago
If you don't feel lust, why did you have a girlfriend?
- Ancapistani 2mo agoJust to be clear: are you suggesting that the only reason someone would want a companion is to satisfy lust?
- inigyou 2mo agoWhat other reason would there be to have a girlfriend or boyfriend? Financial exploitation?
- s1artibartfast 2mo agoAre you on the spectrum too?
- Ancapistani 2mo agoThe funny thing about this — I am
- boonzeet 2mo agoLove? Emotional connection? Care, empathy, social connection, support, like-mindedness… Lust and control are perhaps the two worst reasons to have a relationship.
- inigyou 2mo agoThose sound like the excuses people typically make for lust, yes.
- nerdralph 2mo agoI can remember liking girls from the time I was 5. As with neurotypical pre-pubescent boys I had no sexual interest; holding hands was the only physical contact I desired. Around 11-12, some other boys talking differently about girls, noticing the ones with breasts and other body changes associated with sexual attractiveness.