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If anyone hasn't listened to "Dolly Parton's America" (https://www.wnycstudios.org/podcasts/dolly-partons-america https://www.wnycstudios.org/podcasts/dolly-par

If anyone hasn't listened to "Dolly Parton's America" (https://www.wnycstudios.org/podcasts/dolly-partons-america https://www.wnycstudios.org/podcasts/dolly-partons-america), I highly recommend it. Does a great job interviewing Dolly and discussing with her (and those two are around her) who she is, her life events, her thoughts on life. I knew people loved Dolly Parton before I listened but didn't really know why and the podcast helped me understand a bit more of it. It features a LOT of one-on-one time with Dolly in a way that I don't often find docu-series do. It's fantastic!

jimt1234 2mo ago
One minor fact about Dolly I've always found fascinating is that she was married to the same dude for almost 60 years, until he passed away recently. I mean, being as famous as she was as an entertainer - that just seems like an extreme anomaly.
- kranke155 2mo ago
  Paul Newman I think. Same thing. He was also married to the same person for decades.
  - tclancy 2mo ago
    Yeah and just like Dolly, someone we need more of.
  - wging 2mo ago
    Her husband was Carl Dean.
    - kranke155 2mo ago
      I meant to say Paul Newman was similarly married for decades to the same person.
      - mc32 2mo ago
        De mortis nil nisi bonum, as they say.
  - globular-toast 2mo ago
    George Benson is probably a better example. Like another commenter points out, though, it might just be bias due to the media reporting more on drama than celebrity wedding anniversaries. But, I must admit, I do often look up biographies of entertainers I like and it is quite unusual for them to have a "normal" romantic life.
  - selcuka 2mo ago
    Kevin Bacon and Kyra Sedgwig married in 1988, and they are both celebrities.
- 13hours 2mo ago
  I guess the fact that I'm not mildy surprised that people can be married for 60 years says something about how different our cultures are? Even though we're on HN discussing so many other things we have in common.
  - Erem 2mo ago
    Divorce is rampant among celebrities in the USA. Maybe not worldwide?
  - johnnyanmac 2mo ago
    It's not unheard of. But I guess it's a mix of several small factors: 1. divorce rates have been rising for decades. 2. 60 years is a very long time, and that means Dolly would have had to marry around 18-20. Marrying that young these days for my generation very much is an anomaly, and people are putting off marriage more and more these days. 3. Celebrity culture in particular has a much more tumultuous relationship. In a number of cases, marriage may simply be another influential tool to manage fame and wealth rather than an act of love and caring.
  - asveikau 2mo ago
    I think money, fame, celebrity status, etc. often creates pressures on the relationship. Kind of like how it sometimes pushes people into drug addictions. That's a stereotype that we've all heard about since kids, but it wasn't until relatively recently that I thought about it seriously that it occurred to me that a touring celebrity musician's life can be stressful and the drugs can be (or start out as) a pressure valve release. I think that part of it clicked to me when I heard a musician being interviewed about it, I forget which. Maybe it was a Beatle talking about their early amphetamine days.
    - jimt1234 2mo ago
      I had a friend in the mid-90s that was in a mildly successful band. They did a few national tours as opener for bands like The Red Hot Chili Peppers. I met up with him once while he was out on tour. I was thinking he was living his best life, like he was gonna brag about the lifestyle. Just the opposite. He hated touring, said it was very stressful, and that he just wanted to eat a home-cooked meal and sleep in the same bed more than two nights in a row. And yes, he said industry folks were constantly pushing free drugs.
- pibaker 2mo ago
  Do we have actual data on whether or not celebrities have more volatile relationships? My gut feeling says they may very well be. But I feel it could also just be the media being bloodthirsty towards celebrity drama skewing our perception of it.
  - selcuka 2mo ago
    > Do we have actual data on whether or not celebrities have more volatile relationships? Yes, they are legitimately more volatile [1] > I find that the overall divorce rate for celebrities during their first 16 years of marriage is 52%, compared to 31% for the UK population as a whole. >Celebrity first marriages fare worse than subsequent marriages with 57% versus 47% ending in divorce within 16 years, compared to 35% and 28% respectively for UK [1] https://marriagefoundation.org.uk/research/celebrity-divorce-first-and-second-marriages/ https://marriagefoundation.org.uk/research/celebrity-divorce...
- mlrtime 2mo ago
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Tangurena2 2mo ago
My favorite Dolly story that she sometimes tells in talk shows was when she heard about a Dolly Parton Look Alike contest and entered it. She came in second place.
socalgal2 2mo ago
Except for the part where they try to inject their woke agenda into it by trying to suggest Jolene is a lesbian song. Nothing wrong with LGBTQIA+ but that part was super cringe as it was clear they were inserting their own adgenda rather than just interviewing Dolly Parton

jimt1234 2mo ago

One minor fact about Dolly I've always found fascinating is that she was married to the same dude for almost 60 years, until he passed away recently. I mean, being as famous as she was as an entertainer - that just seems like an extreme anomaly.

kranke155 2mo ago
Paul Newman I think. Same thing. He was also married to the same person for decades.
- tclancy 2mo ago
  Yeah and just like Dolly, someone we need more of.
- wging 2mo ago
  Her husband was Carl Dean.
  - kranke155 2mo ago
    I meant to say Paul Newman was similarly married for decades to the same person.
    - mc32 2mo ago
      De mortis nil nisi bonum, as they say.
- globular-toast 2mo ago
  George Benson is probably a better example. Like another commenter points out, though, it might just be bias due to the media reporting more on drama than celebrity wedding anniversaries. But, I must admit, I do often look up biographies of entertainers I like and it is quite unusual for them to have a "normal" romantic life.
- selcuka 2mo ago
  Kevin Bacon and Kyra Sedgwig married in 1988, and they are both celebrities.
13hours 2mo ago
I guess the fact that I'm not mildy surprised that people can be married for 60 years says something about how different our cultures are? Even though we're on HN discussing so many other things we have in common.
- Erem 2mo ago
  Divorce is rampant among celebrities in the USA. Maybe not worldwide?
- johnnyanmac 2mo ago
  It's not unheard of. But I guess it's a mix of several small factors: 1. divorce rates have been rising for decades. 2. 60 years is a very long time, and that means Dolly would have had to marry around 18-20. Marrying that young these days for my generation very much is an anomaly, and people are putting off marriage more and more these days. 3. Celebrity culture in particular has a much more tumultuous relationship. In a number of cases, marriage may simply be another influential tool to manage fame and wealth rather than an act of love and caring.
- asveikau 2mo ago
  I think money, fame, celebrity status, etc. often creates pressures on the relationship. Kind of like how it sometimes pushes people into drug addictions. That's a stereotype that we've all heard about since kids, but it wasn't until relatively recently that I thought about it seriously that it occurred to me that a touring celebrity musician's life can be stressful and the drugs can be (or start out as) a pressure valve release. I think that part of it clicked to me when I heard a musician being interviewed about it, I forget which. Maybe it was a Beatle talking about their early amphetamine days.
  - jimt1234 2mo ago
    I had a friend in the mid-90s that was in a mildly successful band. They did a few national tours as opener for bands like The Red Hot Chili Peppers. I met up with him once while he was out on tour. I was thinking he was living his best life, like he was gonna brag about the lifestyle. Just the opposite. He hated touring, said it was very stressful, and that he just wanted to eat a home-cooked meal and sleep in the same bed more than two nights in a row. And yes, he said industry folks were constantly pushing free drugs.
pibaker 2mo ago
Do we have actual data on whether or not celebrities have more volatile relationships? My gut feeling says they may very well be. But I feel it could also just be the media being bloodthirsty towards celebrity drama skewing our perception of it.
- selcuka 2mo ago
  > Do we have actual data on whether or not celebrities have more volatile relationships? Yes, they are legitimately more volatile [1] > I find that the overall divorce rate for celebrities during their first 16 years of marriage is 52%, compared to 31% for the UK population as a whole. >Celebrity first marriages fare worse than subsequent marriages with 57% versus 47% ending in divorce within 16 years, compared to 35% and 28% respectively for UK [1] https://marriagefoundation.org.uk/research/celebrity-divorce-first-and-second-marriages/ https://marriagefoundation.org.uk/research/celebrity-divorce...
mlrtime 2mo ago
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Tangurena2 2mo ago

My favorite Dolly story that she sometimes tells in talk shows was when she heard about a Dolly Parton Look Alike contest and entered it. She came in second place.

socalgal2 2mo ago

Except for the part where they try to inject their woke agenda into it by trying to suggest Jolene is a lesbian song. Nothing wrong with LGBTQIA+ but that part was super cringe as it was clear they were inserting their own adgenda rather than just interviewing Dolly Parton