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It is very amusing to me that in a different part of this thread people are complaining that the waiter doesn't come by enough, and here the complaint is the op
by irishcoffee 2mo ago
It is very amusing to me that in a different part of this thread people are complaining that the waiter doesn't come by enough, and here the complaint is the opposite.
- zarzavat 2mo agoThe critical difference for me is if they ask while you're eating, perhaps 5 minutes after serving your table, that's OK it means they are genuinely interested in improving your experience and it's an opportunity to correct minor problems. If they ask after you've eaten, that would be rude, from my British perspective.
- OkayPhysicist 2mo agoThe after-meal ask is to see if 1) you want dessert or 2) you want your soft drink refilled or to purchase an additional alcoholic beverage. Honestly, I think the "waiters keep pestering me" perception from Europeans is heavily influenced by the refill checks, which by-and-large aren't a thing in Europe.