> you absolutely cannot know what it's like until you actually Is probably true for all life changing event. Extreme poverty, wealth, loss of a parent, etc. Th

> you absolutely cannot know what it's like until you actually Is probably true for all life changing event. Extreme poverty, wealth, loss of a parent, etc. There's nothing special in that regard about having children. > if you have even a slight feeling like maybe you want to have kids, I would absolutely do it Nah, that's just being egocentric. Have children if you're pretty sure you can raise them in the best conditions possible for them to end up being happy, if not, better keep on hesitating.