I think you missed the point of my post. It's not either or but the totality of persuit and outcome. Neglecting family for work is not smart. Neglecting work

I think you missed the point of my post. It's not either or but the totality of persuit and outcome. Neglecting family for work is not smart. Neglecting work for family is also not smart (hurts the family) Striking the right balance and achieving enough of each is the smart thing that's hard to pull off but is the prize.