I find it useful to always take a step back and point out that both sides are dumb. Though it often ends up with both sides hating you instead of only one, but

I find it useful to always take a step back and point out that both sides are dumb. Though it often ends up with both sides hating you instead of only one, but ya know.. https://allthatsinteresting.com/august-landmesser https://allthatsinteresting.com/august-landmesser