Maybe I am an outlier, but I never looked to external affirmation as a guide or a goal for my actions. I have a simple rule: Do whatever makes you sleep in pea

Maybe I am an outlier, but I never looked to external affirmation as a guide or a goal for my actions. I have a simple rule: Do whatever makes you sleep in peace with yourself. IOW, My only guiding principles are my own ethics and conscience. I don't care what others are doing. I also don't compete with others. I do what I do and own the consequences of my actions. I might not have a mansion or a fleet of luxury cars, but this is not what makes me happy, anyway.