In case the author of this reads this - on your death bed you will look back at this time and regret not spending _more_ time with your kids. Being ambitious o

In case the author of this reads this - on your death bed you will look back at this time and regret not spending _more_ time with your kids. Being ambitious on both fronts means you are running at 200%. Life will normalise that for you whether you like it or not. They will be gone soon. Stop optimizing for both. It's dada time.