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I think it's social pressure in some cultures, but even in those (sub)cultures which don't have the explicit pressure to have kids, people have a drive to procr
by thenoblesunfish 2mo ago
I think it's social pressure in some cultures, but even in those (sub)cultures which don't have the explicit pressure to have kids, people have a drive to procreate. I cannot tell you how many couples I know who decided they would not have kids, or would only have one, and at a certain point one partner (usually a woman in their late 30s or early 40s if I am being honest) decided this was the most important thing and no amount of money or career setbacks or relationship turmoil wouldn stand in the way.
- pbronez 2mo agoYeah that biological clock had a surprisingly loud alarm!
- Der_Einzige 2mo agoSadly for many of these women the clock hit too late. They call it "geriatric pregnancy" if it's after 35 for a reason.
- thenoblesunfish 1mo agoYup. Several of these people I know left it too late and went through a lot with IVF or adoption of just not having the kids they wanted.