Personally, I have implemented a simple gift policy for the gift I make and the gift I receive: - no more than 1 gift - the gift must not cost overt 20 EUR, a

Personally, I have implemented a simple gift policy for the gift I make and the gift I receive: - no more than 1 gift - the gift must not cost overt 20 EUR, and the less expansive the better - if a list of suggestion is made, better pick up from the list. Simple, effective and it does not prevent gifts or consumption. I usually say that to everyone around me to avoid getting stuff I don't know what to do with and will hate myself if I throw it away (it's a gift you know!) An example : last year xmas present I got from my mom : red ties. Still using them BTW. If you receive something unexpected, accept it after taking time to inform the offerer of your policy, so that next year you won't be uncomfortable. A single awkward moment, then it will be fine for the next years. BTW I'm trying to have people stop sending me cards, but I haven't succeeded yet, even after multiple requests- even when I stopped sending them. The best agreement so far with my family : I explained some people love to receive cards, but I don't, and in fact it makes me very sad - as much as if they don't receive one. So I send them a card IFF they don't send me one - that's a compromise acceptable by both parties. And everyone is happy. No need for a bleeding hart moralizing article during a guilt trip.