> I have never seen anyone with an actual spouse/family look at their partner and relationship through this weird adversarial-gender-struggle lens implied in yo

> I have never seen anyone with an actual spouse/family look at their partner and relationship through this weird adversarial-gender-struggle lens implied in your question. Then, you have never talked openly with women about their roles in society. And, wow. Even the worst chauvinists admit some women feel they are put-upon in their marriages, but you claim these women are invisible.