Do things you can enjoy with them. Raise your kids in a way that you would enjoy their company. If you don't enjoy spending time with them, other people won't

Do things you can enjoy with them. Raise your kids in a way that you would enjoy their company. If you don't enjoy spending time with them, other people won't either. Too many people are on a quest to either a) raise the most successful human possible or b) make parenting easy and commitment free. If you try either you'll end up with a whole lot of neither.