A lot of kink participants are sensitive to oppressive language and try not to use it (outside of a consensual scene that includes it, perhaps). Consent culture

A lot of kink participants are sensitive to oppressive language and try not to use it (outside of a consensual scene that includes it, perhaps). Consent culture is necessarily a culture that doesn't use slurs in daily public life, and at least some who participate in kink are particularly careful about consent.