Different effect. A rock is actually following a curved trajectory through ordinary space. Light always goes straight - but in these extreme circumstances space

Different effect. A rock is actually following a curved trajectory through ordinary space. Light always goes straight - but in these extreme circumstances space itself is curved. You can easily verify this by looking at said curving rock: the fact that you can see it without distortions (or at all) implies that its region of space has insignificant curvature and the light from the event is reaching your eyes is an easy indication of it. Ordinary masses bend space nowhere nearly enough. The Sun bends space just barely enough for the effect to be observable in a solar eclipse (it was used as a verification of Einstein's theories) by causing stars behind it to appear ever so slightly out of place when its disc is just about to overlap them. The light from these stars is NOT being bent - it keeps going in a straight line, but the Sun's gravity slightly alters the very idea of straight in its immediate vicinity. The effect is a tiny distorsion, about 0.00048 degrees. And the Sun is not exactly small.... but it's not dense enough to have a strong effect. Nothing in our everyday experience is. If you could stuff all of its mass into a tiny volume then in its immediate vicinity you could experience this.