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Or maybe you should stop trying so hard to meet people and make friends and just be

• sown 14y ago
  What do you mean? If I don't try then I just stay at home.
  • quit 14y ago
    I mean that, especially for introverts, trying hard to make friends usually is counterproductive. If instead you start finding things you actually enjoy and start enjoying them (forgetting there's people around) it's easier to engage in productive interactions
    • sown 14y ago
      > If instead you start finding things you actually enjoy and start enjoying them (forgetting there's people around) it's easier to engage in productive interactions I've tried that but I didn't see the same phenomena. But thanks for the suggestion. I also find that I don't really enjoy anything nowadays.