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Longer commutes aren’t just about work, and that time in the car is not free. Kids, kids sports, kids social lives, and kids schooling can leave people trapped
by bonesss 2mo ago
Longer commutes aren’t just about work, and that time in the car is not free. Kids, kids sports, kids social lives, and kids schooling can leave people trapped in their cars day in and day out trying to reconcile modern urban socialization expectations and the lower property prices they enjoy because of the minor impracticality.
In my specific area the housing price reduction of moving out of the city balances out quickly by the need for a car and/or a second car (our cheap tiny EV works fine for short commutes), particularly if you compare the relative interest rates. I imagine market forces make it so, the financial tradeoffs are reflected in the pricing.
Further: as the only available housing at a low price point collects in smaller towns the impact of borderline purchasers becomes more pronounced. As neighbours I don’t care, but as a parent who has seen kids get an unfortunate personality remodel from a near-peer bad influences and listened to the experiences of my parent friends who live out of town… the contemporary local culture needs to be considered. It’s not necessarily the cozy small town upbringing we expected in olden days, there has been generational turnover.
- gfrecvh 2mo ago> parent who has seen kids get an unfortunate personality remodel from a near-peer bad influences Scary stuff, I would love to hear more. May I ask what country is this?
- watwut 2mo ago> It’s not necessarily the cozy small town upbringing we expected in olden days, there has been generational turnover. It was never that cosy idealistic and the more you read history of those places the more you see it. The vision of pure sainty village is ideological rather then historical. People who live in small towns are people. Some get aggressive, some are alcoholic or gamblers. Some are assholes in other ways. Or just lead long passive aggressive wars about stupid stuff. There are fights, enablement and abuse for similar reasons as in the cities. There is less anonymity which changes things, but the vision of sainty small town was never accurate.