> the typical German BBQ Maybe this is just an East/West or North/South thing. I am German too and would find that just very weird and atypical. Maybe someth

> the typical German BBQ Maybe this is just an East/West or North/South thing. I am German too and would find that just very weird and atypical. Maybe something you would do in a company setting, where you don't actually want to go, but just keep your job and don't create enemies, so you come and keep the lowest profile possible.