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You say that like its entirely a bad thing. "They want to vent" :- "they want to be heard" :- "they want to be understood" :- "they want to know they are un
by layla5alive 2mo ago
You say that like its entirely a bad thing.
"They want to vent" :-
"they want to be heard" :-
"they want to be understood" :-
"they want to know they are understood" :-
"they want to feel they matter to and are safe with the people they value"
- tonyedgecombe 2mo agoIt was difficult to grasp for someone with an engineering mentality. Why would you not want to fix the problem you are complaining about?
- layla5alive 2mo agoOften times, they want to fix it themselves, they're just not ready to yet. And in the interim, they want to feel seen, understood, validated, safe.