You and gxs haven't said different things. Being open allows connections to be made. That is what happened here. After those connections are made, if a large p

You and gxs haven't said different things. Being open allows connections to be made. That is what happened here. After those connections are made, if a large percentage of future communication consisted of these types of messages, it becomes a large burden to the recipient. Obviously Notch's post doesn't come near this. That isn't to say you can't open up to your friends/family. We need to do that. It is just important that you give as much as you get. My wife is an incredibly open and caring person, and I've seen her get dumped on by people who only give their burdens but are never willing to receive any. That is when sharing becomes selfish.