> Yes they're just trying to be helpful Experience says they're not, they're being dismissive. They don't understand because they don't care to and it's benea

> Yes they're just trying to be helpful Experience says they're not, they're being dismissive. They don't understand because they don't care to and it's beneath them to learn, because the solution is to 'just' do this simple thing everyone knows to do. It now becomes the sufferers fault they continue to suffer and it's not longer required for anyone else to care.