I've personally been "recruited" (groomed) by an older gay person when I was in early twenties. I can completely see having fun or even having a family as eith

I've personally been "recruited" (groomed) by an older gay person when I was in early twenties. I can completely see having fun or even having a family as either gay, or straight, and I'm very glad that I've not joined gay camp. Yes, there is "shopping" for partners, in both camps, and there is competition, and "recruitment", and attempts to protect the interests to do so, including in kinder. Start them early, you know...