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It's a nice post, with a lot of valuable insights. There is one that I disagree with though: "Never abandon the root node". There are plenty of instances that
by Archer6621 2mo ago
It's a nice post, with a lot of valuable insights. There is one that I disagree with though: "Never abandon the root node".
There are plenty of instances that show that in reality this is not what happens, and in fact this is often a necessary step of reinventing yourself if things really aren't working for you. The mid-life crisis is a famous example of this, or even the quarter-life crisis. In some specific psychological circles this is referred to as "disintegration". Sometimes carefully backtracking is simply not enough, and growth needs this kind large shock to the system.
- ecto 2mo agoHe wouldn't know.
- inigyou 2mo agoFWIW existential crises can strike at any part of life, so naming them like that is outdated.
- Archer6621 2mo agoThanks, I indeed meant existential crises, but it didn't hit me while I was writing.
- inigyou 2mo agoI have one currently at (with slight optimism) about a third of my life...