And you're going to right that wrong by making assumptions. It's usually not the person who gets asked who acts like an asshole, and if you don't don't want to

And you're going to right that wrong by making assumptions. It's usually not the person who gets asked who acts like an asshole, and if you don't don't want to be judged by people for your behavior, start by not openly and loudly judging them for theirs. No sympathy for this sort of behavior and you're out of line. Or you're the problem. I'll let you decide since I don't know you.