You'll never have an objective measure of good/bad. You only have your feelings on the matter. One way is to define what you view as good (or better: define wh

You'll never have an objective measure of good/bad. You only have your feelings on the matter. One way is to define what you view as good (or better: define what you view as "better") and just be that as much as you can. Because "trying to actually be better" puts you above the median person immediately, IMHO