Well, sure, but if you want to accept those things you have to revoke the idea that distances and times are observer independent quantities. Even physicists fai

Well, sure, but if you want to accept those things you have to revoke the idea that distances and times are observer independent quantities. Even physicists fail to understand this after years of studying relativity. It is very difficult to really understand that relativity says: distances and durations that you measure in your frame of reference are not physically meaningful quantities.