Fair enough and that's how it usually ends up, the subject changes and everyone goes about their lives. That's not really why they are asking me though... they

Fair enough and that's how it usually ends up, the subject changes and everyone goes about their lives. That's not really why they are asking me though... they are hoping I can give them some secret sauce to making it actually happen. The reality is that sauce is simply their not changing the subject and to keep asking questions. I'll keep talking, its more exciting then the sisters wedding at the end of the day and maybe together will figure some way forward rather than accepting the "fair enough" copout.