Ask HN: What do you expect from a modern Go ORM?

I have been working on a Go ORM and I am trying to understand what experienced Go developers actually want from an ORM. The main problems I see: - losing control over generated SQL - difficult complex queries - too much magic Some questions: 1. Do you prefer ORM, query builder, or database/sql? 2. Which features make you trust an ORM in production? 3. What are the biggest problems with existing Go ORM solutions? I am collecting feedback before making more design decisions.