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Seriously ... there's a big difference between a busybody and sincere concern from a friend. To a real friend, you're always free to say "thanks, but I underst
by snogglethorpe 14y ago
Seriously ... there's a big difference between a busybody and sincere concern from a friend. To a real friend, you're always free to say "thanks, but I understand the tradeoffs, and it's my decision."
To be honest, I often feel rather flattered (even if embarrassed) when given uncomfortable but well-meant advice, because in many cases it means the friend cared enough to say something awkward; it's almost always much easier to say nothing at all...
- hkmurakami 14y agoThat's definitely the case for me when saying something a bit uncomfortable for the both of us. I think to myself "is it worth it? Do I care enough about this person to say something somewhat critical?" As a result I only say such things to friends I respect and care enough about that I'm willing to take the risk of even straining a relationship.