i don't really disagree with you (and i felt unfair even when posting). in my defense, all i can say is that what rubs me the wrong way is not the process, or

i don't really disagree with you (and i felt unfair even when posting). in my defense, all i can say is that what rubs me the wrong way is not the process, or the fact that someone is learning, but the tone. yes, we're all on these different stages at different times. but once you acknowledge that, shouting about any particular one as "the" solution seems a bit strong. especially when you know that you're going to look back on this particular point as just one more - perhaps confused - step.