>wife should stay at home for couple of years That’s awfully presumptuous and gendered. >buy a car Assuming you don’t already have one and live somewhere whe

>wife should stay at home for couple of years That’s awfully presumptuous and gendered. >buy a car Assuming you don’t already have one and live somewhere where a car is needed. Plenty of parents with no cars or who had 1 and continue to live with 1. >buy a house Plenty of people do that with or without kids and plenty of parents rent. >education Plenty of people go to public school. >healthcare Valid but also people’s situations vary wildly here.