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Very thoughtful of you overall. As a corollary, I'd also say that it's is the helper's best interest to help someone *'deserving' not just someone asking for
by dennis_jeeves2 3mo ago
Very thoughtful of you overall.
As a corollary, I'd also say that it's is the helper's best interest to help someone *'deserving' not just someone asking for help. This is easier said than done. For one the helper must do a lot more wok than helping.
*=one could have a big discussion on who is truly deserving.
Also we there are many definitions of 'help' which of course I'm sure you are aware of.
- jongjong 3mo agoYes. A lot of people have a very loose definition. Which is strange to me. Some people think of the postman who brings them letters as "helping" but I don't consider it that way as they're being paid. The people who volunteer to charities are helping, I guess... Though some of them may just be looking for future leverage/opportunities; e.g. padding their resumes... Some people, especially who have money, tend to struggle to isolate the monetary incentive and discount the value of money being given to the person in exchange.