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> I have friends who did things like take a gap year to travel the world or met their spouses on nights I stayed in to study, and some evenings when browsing HN

by coryrc 4mo ago

> I have friends who did things like take a gap year to travel the world or met their spouses on nights I stayed in to study, and some evenings when browsing HN I feel very sad that I wasted my 20s on a society that does not care about me. I'm glad you have finally recognized the problem. Stop living for your idea of others and start living for yourself.

firefax 4mo ago
>Stop living for your idea of others and start living for yourself. Unfortunately, I exhausted my emergency fund trying for certs and attempting to escape a domestic violence situation, so I do not have that option. I'm trapped.