It becomes policing when you say: > "I appreciate your anger, but it’s misplaced here." Weird mix of narcissism to think anyone cares if you appreciate their

It becomes policing when you say: > "I appreciate your anger, but it’s misplaced here." Weird mix of narcissism to think anyone cares if you appreciate their anger, and arrogance to think you know where it belongs. You're definitely confused. We can leave it at that.