> Maturity is understanding that no matter who is to blame for the situation you are in or the problems you have, you as an individual are most of the time the

> Maturity is understanding that no matter who is to blame for the situation you are in or the problems you have, you as an individual are most of the time the only one who can fix your problems. Nothing is more effective than a determined person. And nobody knows you better than yourself. This is not an individual problem, this is a social problem. >Unless you think you can change the entire universe to do your bidding - then the best thing you can do is helping yourself and helping others. Nobody is helped by complaining. And I'm not missing your point, I just don't share your perspective. There are things that are going wrong that are beyond the scope of individuals - we fix these things by regulations and laws >because they want somebody else to be blamed and "responsible" for their life and their mistakes. This is an irrelevant strawman, I don't care about blaming, I want to fix the issues that we have in society. >That's why I'm saying to seek out what is good instead of what is evil. And help those who want to be helped. This is not a solution, you may as well go to clinically depressed people and go "well why don't you just be happy?" - it doesn't work. Just like how saying "well don't use social media!" doesn't work.