I'm not the parent commenter, but I think this is not what they are saying. This is more of a "Do what you must, come what may" thing. You can and should teac

I'm not the parent commenter, but I think this is not what they are saying. This is more of a "Do what you must, come what may" thing. You can and should teach your kids the ways of life and make them understand that - the choices are theirs - responsibility for said choices is also theirs - results may not reflect choices