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have you been able to reconcile with your parents? thank you for sharing
by chadhutchins10 4mo ago
have you been able to reconcile with your parents? thank you for sharing
- gavinray 4mo agoI love this question! Because yes, this one has a happy ending =) I had estranged my mother, didn't really talk to my adoptive father, and purposefully kept my maternal grandparents (who I am closest with) in the dark because I didn't want them to see me like this. I also have 3 much younger sisters, who I didn't talk to for the same reasons as the grandparents. I've made a HUGE effort to reconnect and make amends with my family. I'm on good terms with my parents and talk to both of them regularly, I explained to my grandparents after I got sober and visit them at least once a year, and I reconnected with my siblings who I now text regularly and we host a "sibling trip" where we get together over a weekend once each year. I am very grateful that they saw my efforts and gave me a second chance. My oldest sister in particular was very wary.