When I am spied on without my consent (and burying something about it deep in the ToS is not consent), the harm is not that I could have otherwise sold out, the

When I am spied on without my consent (and burying something about it deep in the ToS is not consent), the harm is not that I could have otherwise sold out, the same way that the harm in rape is not in the woman being deprived of earnings through prostitution.