Had you considered this was not in the mother’s control, was not her choice, and/or that this was a better outcome for the child and she knew that? He was not

Had you considered this was not in the mother’s control, was not her choice, and/or that this was a better outcome for the child and she knew that? He was not left in a bin or dumpster. This is not an ideal way to give up a baby for adoption, but don’t assume he was unwanted, or unloved: you don’t know - or seem able to imagine - the full story.