45 years, for me. I see lots of that stuff in the Fellowship. I've seen resentments go on for decades, and metastasize. Since no one is putting a stem in their

45 years, for me. I see lots of that stuff in the Fellowship. I've seen resentments go on for decades, and metastasize. Since no one is putting a stem in their mouth, it's OK. I gave up my anger at about the ten-year mark. It was really difficult. Just like giving up the substances.