Yes, but all three of those things can be true at the same time. We know the apps sandbag, everyone has some character flaws, and that hookups are often the goa

Yes, but all three of those things can be true at the same time. We know the apps sandbag, everyone has some character flaws, and that hookups are often the goal. Maybe being brutally handsome and in my 30s is keeping me from understanding, but I'm saying using these apps is now far more effort than not. It's sort of like watching people try to eat healthy by changing their fast food or frozen dinner preferences. There's a fundamental misunderstanding making this way harder than it has to be. People need to learn to express themselves in a way that's both honest and attractive in order to be happy in both relationships and hookups, and these apps stunt that growth.