There's a whole movie about not getting to the university one wanted: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1174732 http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1174732; the story present

There's a whole movie about not getting to the university one wanted: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1174732 http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1174732; the story presents life after this failure as almost ruined. While I totally agree with your "failing as a startup founder hurts, but it's not the end of the world" stance, comparing this to not getting into university is not correct. Someone's life changes for worse dramatically and almost irreversibly when this happens. After a failed startup you just move on.